Am I a drama queen? I think very much on the emotional side of the brain. Is it because of my theatre training? or am i just an emotional person? lately wayne and i have been having a hard time; is it that we're purposely hurting each other, do we not know how to communicate well anymore, is life too stressful, did we make some wrong choices, can we not understand each others emotions, do we not truely care enough anymore, or is it just a symptom of these 6 weeks of post-partum and how annoying that is? Well, whatever it is know it's not permanent, but it's still really annoying. i hate that we upset each other and dont listen very well right now. i miss my best friend and emotional support. maybe life is just way too stressful to be healthy right now... but what can be changed? i don't think there is anything that we control that can be changed without changing our goals and dreams. that being said, i guess we choose this.
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I think this happens to all moms and dads. Especially with the first child, its such a big change, and you just don't know how to deal with every thing. It will get better as long as you both try to make it work. Make sure to keep talking and explaining how you feel with out trying to put the other down (something that I struggled with). Make sure to keep doing couple scripture and prayer. Also something that we were encouraged to do (by my husband's bishop before we were married) was in couple prayer, who ever is saying it should vocally thank Heavenly Father for their spouse and specific reasons why. He also said try not to repeat the same things all the time, but to find something else new every time.
Hope that helps, don't think its all you or him, its alot of things, mainly the stress of being new parents.
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